You have to be responsible in various activities of life. Whether it is your job or taking care of your old parents or your little baby, I think you simply cannot escape from your duty. So why are you so much worried about being responsible towards your kids?
I think children are the best gift from God. Try to get some good family support either from your parents or hire a good maid for help. Things will become easier to handle.
There are thousands and thousands of mothers who have happily sacrificed their careers to take care of their kids. But I don’t think you have to do that as there are good crèche facilities and day care schools to take care of your baby. There is nothing much to worry about. I think you can overcome all your hurdles as it comes. So stop becoming anxious now and be happy.
Thanks for all your advice but I am worried if having a kid will reduce my chances of achieving things in life. If in future I won’t be able to give them time and take proper care then I will feel very guilty. I am also afraid that I may have to become a stay-at-home mom.
If you love to be with kids then I think you can also manage them efficiently. All that is needed is some proper planning. Get some help from your family members or hire a good maid to take care of your child.
Your situation is so similar to what I had faced years back. But today I am the proud mother of two beautiful and loving kids. I think you are only assuming things. Be strong and face any challenges in life boldly. And motherhood is something so precious and wonderful. Enjoy it.
You have to be responsible in various phases of life so why are you concerned about it while having a baby. Raising a baby is nothing impossible. A little care and support for everyone will help you to manage things in a smooth manner.